Showing posts with label Editorials. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Editorials. Show all posts

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Beautiful Butterflies


A Meghan Dress from Asos.com

The use of butterfly in fashion is nothing new. Butterflies are widely used on T-shirts, tunics, dresses, scarves and sometimes jeans. Other than that, there is also a design called "butterfly dropout". Once, I thought the word is taken from an anatomical wing from a butterfly which then gives the idea of butterfly-winged sleeves or what ever makes the clothing loose and flow. However, after a thorough searching through the net, I found the history behind a so-called "Butterfly Dropout". The idea was created by Tova Celine, a vintage designer who is currently working as a group in Sublimation Factory/ TSF. She said,

"Butterfly Dropout is an offering. Each garment tells a story, through images collected over a lifetime, from many lands, cultures, and ages, pieced together as a collage of life. The line`s message resonate inside us."

An Ivy Dress from Butterfly Dropout.

So, it is rather metaphoric from the butterflies metamorphosis which resemblance human stages of life. Whatever it is, I love butterflies a lot. Be it as room decorations or clothing designs or fashion accesories. I just love them all. They are so feminine, pretty, sweet and stunning.


My favourite possession. A butterfly golden ring from Accesorize. But, there is one funny thing when you are wearing it. It hurts others palms when you do "salam" hand greeting. Ops, sorry.
Wow, a must have bracelet. It matches the above ring. A butterfly bracelet from Juicy Couture.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Care to Dress Modestly?

I am currently anxious thinking of what will happen next week. Fyi, I'll be back to work in fort night time, right after I finish my induction course starting this 20th Oct. So far, I have no idea where the KKM going to send me. I am hoping that, the hospital which I am going to work is not so far from my husband's place. Ameen...

Anyway, that is not the issue I would like to address today. As a muslim women, I wonder if we all care to dress modestly. This includes from top to toe, our hair/head, body shape and our feet. Are modest clothings are out of fashion? I totally disagree. What is fashion? Lets together read what has been suggested by Wikipedia.

Fashion refers to the styles and customs prevalent at a given time. In its most common usage however, "fashion" describes the popular clothing style. Many fashions are popular in many cultures at any given time. Important is the idea that the course of design and fashion will change more rapidly than the culture as a whole. Fashion designers create and produce clothing articles.
The terms "fashionable" and "unfashionable" were employed to describe whether someone or something fits in with the current or even not so current, popular mode of expression.

The ones highlighted are the key words to the word Fashion. Who makes fashion popular? It must be the top, most influential fashion designers. Who are those top fashion designers? Most of them are non muslims, even so they are muslims, they must be liberals. So, this is what we should afraid of. They rules clothing industry and we the ones with little faith are so vulnerable to follow what they have served. As said earlier, fashion change more rapidly than the culture. Where as, it shouldn't happen in Islamic culture because Islam is a complete way life, which is practical anytime, anywhere.

I wish I could be the middle person who knows how to blend well the trendy fashion styles and the hijabis needs. For some reason, I don't think I could because I am still learning about fashion. To be able to do so, I think I have to quit my job, take some related professional courses and work as a full time stylist. Since, it is far than I could reach, I would like to summon all Muslim fashion designers out there to work hard to the professional level in order to fight the current westerners fashion designers.

Last weekend, in the morning, I was chilling at home while catching some news in Harian Metro. As usual, reading Harian Metro at times could be daunting. However, my attention is given to an advert article entitled "T Shirt labuh muslimah by Ilham-Muslimah". Having talked about dressing modesly, I think the t-shirt labuh/elongated T-shirt introduced by Ilham-Muslimah could fit nicely in the word modesty. In the very beginning when T-shirt labuh being commersialised, I never liked it much because it looks like wearing a pyjama. But, I just loved the new designs with laced bib necklines. The dress-like-cutting makes the T-shirt even more stunning. I can now imagine wearing it with my favourite slim-fit/skinny jeans. Below are my favourites.



Happy buying with Ilham-Muslimah.

LotsaLove,
Fadzie.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Is wearing RED considered Too Much for A Muslimah??


My Red Fashion Collections
Sleveless Red Dress paired with Long Sleeve Red Shirt.
Floral and Striped Square Scarf from Tie Rack.
Sequinned Bangle from Accesorize.
Peep Toe wedges from Schuh.
Vintage Shopping Bag from Cath Kidston.

Do you think a decent Muslim Woman would consider to wear red? Hmm, my answer is : I am not sure. As for me, sometimes, I do fancy Red stuffs like stationaries, electronic gadgets, handbags, accessories, shoes, clothings and many more. I have a piece of plain Red dress which I bought 2 years ago and I only wore it once. So often, I still have some doubts, by means lacking of self-confidence to wear the red dress. I wonder how RedMummy managed to hail Red colours in almost everything she owned. She must have a strong character that makes Red is just perfect for her braveness and profound self-esteem. Thus, came the word success in her life.

Now, back to the earlier question. I still wonder if Red suits a true muslimah. I don't think I am a true muslimah as yet, but I always try to be like one. Again, but I love to dress up with style. Is colour plays a role in clothing to be a perfect muslimah. Maybe, it does. Whites and blacks, sometimes Brown and Gray are commonly found in jubah/abayas. I think jubah/abayas is an ideal clothing for a muslim woman. Those colours portrays a decent and humble personality. They never considered too much or over shown. Unlike Red, which is meant to be attractive.

While searching for some sources regarding this matter, I found an article about "Warna Pakaian Muslimah oleh Ustadz Aris Munandar" posted by M Shubhi Baiquni from Indonesia in Facebook. The article is very reliably helpful. It is hard for me to translate in English, since I am not a "pro" in literature.

Dari al Qasim bin Muhammad bin Abi Bakr, “Sesungguhnya Aisyah memakai pakaian yang dicelup dengan ‘ushfur saat beliau berihram” (HR. Ibnu Abi Syaibah 8/372, dengan sanad yang shahih)
Pada tulisan yang lewat telah kita bahas bahwa yang dimaksud dengan celupan dengan ‘ushfur adalah celupan yang menghasilkan warna merah. Perbuatan Aisyah sebagaimana dalam riwayat di atas menunjukkan bahwa seorang perempuan muslimah diperbolehkan memakai pakaian berwarna merah polos. Bahkan pakaian merah polos adalah pakaian khas bagi perempuan sebagaimana keterangan di edisi yang lewat.
Berikut ini beberapa riwayat yang kuat dari salaf tentang hal ini:


Dari Ibrahim an Nakha’i, bersama Alqamah dan al Aswad beliau menjumpai beberapa istri Nabi. beliau melihat para istri Nabi tersebut mengenakan pakaian berwarna merah.

Dari Ibnu Abi Mulaikah, aku melihat Ummi Salamah mengenakan kain yang dicelup dengan ‘ushfur (baca: berwarna merah).

Dari Hisyam dari Fathimah bin al Mundzir, sesungguhnya asma’ memakai pakaian yang dicelup dengan ‘ushfur (baca: berwarna merah)
Dari Said bin Jubair, beliau melihat salah seorang istri Nabi yang thawaf mengelilingi Ka’bah sambil mengenakan pakaian yang dicelup dengan ‘ushfur (Baca: Berwarna merah). (Lihat Jilbab Mar’ah Muslimah karya al Albani hal. 122-123).

Wallahua'lam...

Usually, Red is matched with black or white. Alternatively, red also goes well with blue jeans, gray, dark brown or beige. I wish I know how to tone down from Miss Sexy Red to Miss Easy Looking.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

An Evening in KL. Dare to Layer?


Top to toe:
Chiffon Scarf with Awning
Navy Blue Shirt from Guess

Sleveless Black Cotton Voile Cardigan from Pennys
White Boot Cut Jeans from MNG
Wide feet heel from Clarks
Large Tote from Chritian Dior
Chain necklace and bangle from Accesorize.

It has been a month since I moved in Kuala Lumpur from Dublin. Even though the weather never promise comfortness but your outfit can. However, comfortness could be in many ways depending on your perceptions. Some like to wear heels for comfort (Really??hehe), some prefer to wear "almost nude" (by means short skirts, bare shoulders and so on), and some just love full coverage such as wearing wide jilbab and large abayas. As for me, I love layering but I only prefer to wear it at night time. Some may never agree on wearing layers of clothings in this very warm country. However, it is never a big deal for me as long as I know my clothing materials are light and breathable. As for the above picture, I chose a plain navy blue shirt size L and layered it up with sleveless black cardigan made of cotton. Other choices, you can choose anything from silk, linen or rayon. Those are best for hot climate just like our country.

These cardigans are perfect for Malaysia-Summer-all-year-round. They are all from Promod. For your information, Promod retail outlets are available in Pavillion and The Gardens.


Gauze Fabric Shawl Jacket in Blue
Gorgeous jacket in a lightweight fabric with lots of volume on the front and a tie belt. With longer front hem, hemmed edges and a shawl collar.



Lightweight crushed jacket.
Summer jacket in cool cotton voile with an uneven hem, longer at front and ties with beltloops to fasten at the back. A covetable fashion item.

Hopefully, the idea works for you too. Selamat Mencari Kedinginan Malam AlQadr.

Fadzie.

Friday, September 4, 2009

Today is The Editor's Birthday

Alhamdulillah, today I just turned 26. My only wish is to get pregnant in anytime soon. Hehe ameen. I am blessed to be married to a wonderful husband with his adorable family. I feel my life is almost completed. Nothing else could I ask for, well, except having kids. I am grateful being a daughter to my parents and a sister to my beautiful siblings.

Thank you.

Regards,
Fadzie.

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Palazzo Pants

Skirt Pant! Skirt Pant! Skirt Pant! Sekepaang.....


Extra Wide Leg or else mention it as Palazzo Pants. For me, I'd love to say it as skirt-pant hehe. This flared, ultra wide, loose-fitting women trousers have been set in trend since 1960s-1970s. The pants are usually designed high-waisted and matched with ruffles shirts for classy and elgant look. Otherwise, some like it simple with a tank top and jacket. Surprisingly, don't be mistaken if you think this pants never suits the petites. Yes, it does. Just choose any palazzo with extra long and pull it out with your best stillettos. You will definitely look polished and become the center of attention.



Lauren Conrad in her high waisted palazzo pants.

Above is the picture of Lauren Conrad, my favourite fashion icon ever. Her exquisite styles speaks her talent in fashion. Now, speaking of her palazzo pants, I think she look stunning. The white ruffles shirt, a leather jacket, studded belt and pair of peep toes are perfect for her appearance at David Letterman Show. I am so envy with you LC!! Moreover, her iconic Chanel Classic Caviar Jumbo Flap is enough to possess every bagaholics.



Palazzo Pant bought in Istanbul, Turkey.
No-name black tunic top.
Navy Blue Blouse with pleats from Warehouse.
Black Pumps from Dunnes Store.
Totes from Christian Dior.

What do you think of me wearing the palazzos? Well, I look halved in the first picture. I blamed it to the photographer, my husband. Heee. (Sorry, Hunnie!!). N'ohhh I am just kidding. I do admit my shape look wider and shorter. I knew it and I don't care as I love my skirt pant a lot for its slouchy and flowing effects in every gesture. I avoided wearing heels because my palazzo is only ankle length so it is a bit short. If I put it together with heels, my skirt pant will look hanging or best word "senteng sangat bangat". And that will shows too much skins from above-maleoli to the rest of the feet. Macam tak sesuai untuk muslimah pulak. Heee...The skirt pant that I was wearing has a very extra large wide leg, an almost A-cut. As if 2 legs can fit into one. This pant is well known to Turkish Hijabis.

So, where can you shop for palazzo? The closest and cheapest way is at your door step pasar malam or uptown. Seriously yes, it is available everywhere around the country. Nowadays, the price is around RM20-RM30. The picture below is taken from sindoracollection.blogspot.com.


Wednesday, August 26, 2009

That Tribal Look!!

Here, I present my very first masterpiece at Polyvore.com. In the very beginning, I was totally blank in choosing what style I would like to throw out. I couldn't think much. Maybe because, it was nearly a day of fasting, my mind just shut down. I wanted to stay chill while bertafakur waiting for berbuka puasa. Then, after a while before I turn off my laptop, the idea came suddenly. I was thinking something for daily wear. As for me, usually I pick a simple blouse or tunic and pull it off with jeans and flip flop. It is perfect for me to go for groceries or some quick daily shopping.

As below, I chose a tunic with somewhat a Nigerian vintage pattern. This kind of tunics are easy to find anywhere around the country. Another option is the Punjabi blouse which is available everywhere including pasar malam. For more details, check out That Tribal Look! at Polyvore.com. Thank you.


Sunday, August 23, 2009

FCUK Long Sleeve Dresses

Wow..

Look at these FCUK dresses. My heart just melts, my eyes are rolling and my mind can't stop thinking of it. I'd say Jana, from Hijab style made a brilliant pick by chosing Dinky Dress and post it to her blog. I just fell in love at first sight. The Dinky dress she chose perfect for my style. Then, I started click on it to dig for more. Another wow, i found more and more flattering long sleeve dresses. Leave the prices for a moment as I want to hail the style and designs. If only I can copy the designs and bring them to local tailor hoping for cheaper costs. Obviously, even the best tailor in town could never produce the same quality. Those dresses are very exclusive. I dont think I could ever find it at any street, thus comes the marked-up price. High street dresses like these are worth it due to its fine cuts with the best materials.

Now, lets supple the eyes with these FCUK latest dressses.

Sugars Dress 75pounds
I imagined this dress is best worn by some a petite lady who'd like to go chic. With pleating detail to hem will add some cuteness in her style.


Mae Dress 200pounds
I always love glamorous sequinns. This body fitting evening dress may not actually suitable for a decent and modest muslimah ladies. However, I think it might suits for skinny ladies. Just choose one size bigger than usual, then you can freely wear it with no hesitation. I'm so into its bead bird embellishment.


Himalaya Dress 50pounds
This gingham printed dress goes well for muslimah rockers. Ala ala Yuna style gitu. The fabric is 100% cotton.


Dinky Dress 75pounds
This one is my favourite. It is simple and practical for outing. The rounded neck gives the chance to style your tudung anything you like. Rounded neck brings more room for your neck to breath. Plus, it fit your chest and shoulders nicely.

Bex Dress 130pounds
This could be an evening dress or stylish office wear. I think the sleeves are see through, so choose black long sleeve inner wear or buy piece of black satin and sew it. Yet, another simple and perfect for slimmer looks.

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Salam Ramadhan

Assalamualaikum wbt, In the name of Allah, Most Gracious Most Merciful.



An Evening treat from husband at Haagen Dazs, Dublin.

Hooray it's Ramadhan again. Alhamdulillah we are all still given a chance to celebrate yet another ramadhan. I consider this year's ramadhan should be my best ramdhan ever. It is now really up to me how I spend my ramdhan for better or for nothing except "lapar dan dahaga". Why I said that? It happened because I am currently unemployed, thus I have like 24x7 hours so called "free time" to make my ramadhan more meaningful than usual. What I meant by meaningful is my ramadhan has to be fulfilled with reciting qurans, extra sunat prayers, terawih 20 rakaats, and most importantly reaching to the gate of lailatul qadr. As other people, I am sure everyone of us must at least have liitle intention to khatam quran till the end of ramadhan. However most people never succeeded including me. There are always excuses like tired from work, no time due works, travelling balik kampung, and so on. Having said that, some people still feels no guilty. Now, I feel like "sudahlah tulis pepanjang tapi sendiri masih malas, buat ape". So, from the moment i signed off this entry, I will leave my laptop, perform ablutions and pray then baca quran. InsyaAllah. Hopefully, you all will do so and keep continue doing it. Lets together istiqamah to attain a close position to Allah's heart. Amin.

Good luck to me and awak juga!!! =)
Fadzie.

Monday, August 17, 2009

Of Malay Weddings

Salam all,

I was very excited once I knew I'm coming home for good. Even more excited, when I was invited to friends' weddings. However, husband and I only managed to attend 3 wedding receptions. Those 3 receptions were Eliza's-Ziham's and Ruzain's-Ainul's, both bride and groom and sides. Eliza's reception was held at Renaissance Hotel, Kota Bharu. I was a bit overwhelmed since the event was held at my birthplace and my aunt and uncle were invited too. The venue was more than perfect. It was beautifully decorated in innocent white just like what I've been dreaming of. Sigh. My pelamin turned peach-white when I asked for true white. Whatever it was, I am still happy to be married. Alhamdulillah.

Ok, let's move to what-to-wear as a guest. Since I was small, I remembered when it comes to wedding my mother always busy looking for new baju kurung as if like her own wedding. Well, what's the difference with me, her daughter ;). I tell you, the difference is I like to "recycle" my existing baju kurung/kebaya. I am not kind of person who likes to buy and spend. This time, I simply took my most glamourous baju which is my baju nikah and wore it at Ruzain's reception. Actually, it was my 3rd time wearing it. Unfortunately, my body size is now bigger than the baju. Come on, it has been 2 happy years, of course I've gained some weight and extra fats. So, I sent my favourite baju nikah for some alterations. However, I was a bit stupid, didn't realised the kain has to be altered too. Then, it was too late already. Sigh. After that, I made some efforts and dragged my mom to search for ready made kain sarung to match my baju nikah. Just the day before the event at night, I found one. Thank God for granting my needs hehehe. Ops. thanks to mom too, you're superb!! I was so delighted that until now I still can wear my baju nikah. Now, I don't feel guilty anymore for spending RM500+ for the lace and satin 2 years ago, it was worthy. I didn't regret too for choosing light green because I wanted it to be practical for long-lasting wear. (But, kesian pulak my husband 'cos he hates his green baju melayu).



Left: At Ruzain's and Ainul's Reception, Dewan Perdana Felda.
Right: Me and Husband at Outdoor Shooting after Akad Nikah on 31st August 2008.



At Ainul's reception, Bachok, Kelantan. I was wearing my sister's baju kurung pesak, a hand-over.



From Left; Uncle, Aunt, Mom, Me. At Eliza's and Ziham's reception, Renaissance, Kota Bharu.
I was wearing last year's baju raya. Bought in Kemaman, Trg for less than RM80 sepasang.

I grabbed this oppurtunity to congratulate Eliza-Ziham, Ruzain-Ainul, and Mahirah-Arif Fahmi( sorry tak berkesempatan datang wedding korang). Hopefully, your "baitul-muslim" remains forever and cherished by Allah's blessings. Thanks for the invitations.

Style Tips: Baju kurung/kebaya plain or bercorak geometri or tidak terlalu berbunga amatlah sesuai untuk dipakai di majlis-majlis kahwin yang beretika dan formal. Where as, baju with lace and sequinns are perfect for night events.

With Love,
Fadzie.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Salam From Malaysia

Assalamualaikum wbt,

It's a bit delayed since my last entry. I just moved, back to my own mother-land Malaysia. I'm still getting used to this hot climate which is not so tropical anymore. I'd barely feel the humidity. It was rather dry and windless. Now, I'm start thinking whether all my current outfits would be suitable or not. Obviously, the lighter you wear, the better you can walk at ease. So, is that mean no more layering as I always love? Hmm, I think we can just reserve it for night time or just whenever you feel like going into cinema or shopping in a well air-conditioned mall. I haven't got any pictures of any styles as yet due to some technical difficulties. Furthermore, I'd like to wait for more observations and researches from local styles. Let just be patient because I can't wait too.

Anyway, just want to share this one fabulous online fashion blog for muslimah: http://hijabstyle.blogspot.com/. It's the UK First Style Guide For Muslim Women. When I first met this blog, I was instantly inspired more than ever. It gives me the spirit to continue blogging for fashion styling. I was also a bit enthusiastic when I found out the "Reader's Contributions" segment . So, for being slightly confident (perhaps, for being narcissistic hehe), I sent my entry. I'm not hoping for people's vote as if like other kind of competitions. But, my entry is more about me as the blog's reader and here is my contribution as below:





Get Featured in Hijab Style, Reader's Contributions.

That's all for now.
Fadzie.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Khaleeji Style VS Siti Nurhaliza Style

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Above of all clothings, tudung/hijab plays the most important part in becoming a true muslimah. One person normally transforms for better by starting wearing hijab. They usually choose something that is very easy, light and most comfortable as trying to avoid frustration. Regardless, if they're fully covered or not.

Now, Siti Nurhaliza has become on of those. Alhamdulillah, she had the intention to start wearing tudung. However, after a year seeing her tudung style, I am more irritated than ever. Maybe because she's very influnetial top celebrity in Malaysia. Now, I see her as bad tudung-figure. Furthermore, her recent style wearing only "serkup" at the very back of her head is hideous. I'd prefer if she choose turban than little "serkup" which sometimes looks like Jewish cap. Nevertheless, her most famous style which almost Khaleeji Style is quite stunning. This reminds me of the old Malay women who used "kain sarung" as to cover their head. Yet, still never agree with the revealing of hair and neck.



As per true Khaleeji Hijab Style (which means tudung style of the Gulf), it is designed using a long rectangular scarf or pashmina/shayla on top of the amirah cap. This style definitely covers the neck and head (but not the chest, though).



The Original Khaleeja Hijab Style

I like Khaleeji style and have tried it but didn't really work that well. It's easy, but difficult to maintain (high maintenace style!!!).



Learn how to wear the original Khaleeji Hijab style, tutored by Adilah from her YouTube post. Click here. However, if you're looking for easier Khaleeji Style, you can just buy the "tudung siti" and wear it with mini "tudung ekin". Now, we can call it "tudung siti ekin". Hehe. Whatever...


Hajaba Collections.
PICTURE COURTESY OF WWW.BHARIAN.COM.MY

p/s: Fadzie might also be wearing "tudung siti ekin" for one of her Raya styles.

Regrds,
Fadzie.

Friday, July 24, 2009

Harem Trousers

Ever familiar with HAREM trouser? Don't be mistaken by the literature meaning of Harem which is the part of a Muslim palace or house reserved for the residence of women back in Ottoman Empire. I'm talking here about HAREM TROUSERS OR PANTS which is completely non-related to above definition. Or, in my own other name: "Seluar Aladdin".


Harem Trouser from Topshop

This not-so-new Harem Pant started with Yves Saint Lauren and Louis Vuitton Autumn/Winter 2008 Runway show. Unfortunately, the style just never get it there for too long. There were just so many hideous critics than appraisal. Maybe, Westerners never like the idea of baggy and sagging. Of course, they prefer open and figure fitting. Now, the propaganda is clear: womens sexual exploitation. After all, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.



YSL and Louis Vuitton by Marc Jacobs Autumn/Winter 2008 Paris Fashion Week.
PICTURE COURTESY OF WWW.VOGUE.CO.UK

For me, I love HAREM pant. It suits my needs. I first saw this harem pant worn by one ska reggae lady while walking on Henry Street, Dublin. The style is loose, baggy from lower hip and narrowed down at the ankle. It looks sooo comfortable. Then, I went to Istanbul, just the right time and place for me to find one or two harem pants. I already had in my mind what kind of tops might suits. It can be either clear cut shirts or blouses. However, it's not as easy as I thought. It can be quite challenging and difficult to pull off. See the result as below. Mmg haram tak lawa!!Hahaha my husband and parents couldn't stop making fun of me. I felt like I was wearing my pyjamas.



Fashion Victim

Now, this is Ciara (Listen to her duet with Enrique Iglesias, Taking Back My Love. Just love it). She looks decent and very modest. Don't you like it? Well, I do. Strappy stilettos upgraded the Harem trousers. This style gives me some inspiration for the next time I wear my harem.



Actually, i bought another Harem in Turkey which is slightly different than we've seen so far. It almost look like a skirt. See it below:



Purple Harem Trouser with Cotton Long Sleeve Blouse and Strappy Heels. The last picture shows additional sleeveless black cardigan with waist belt.

Harem definitely not my regular wear. It took me a lot of time in the mirror and some strength to walk out of the door. Pheww...

With My SIL at Barcelonata Beach. She was wearing flowery harem.

Daaa..
Fadzie.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

You Are What You Wear

Assalamualaikum wbt.

I'd like to begin with Hijab/tudung/scarf. So, when you see any lady (regardless their colour, race and nationality) covering full of her hair/head and neck, what would be the first impression you have in mind? Well, I would say "she's a muslim" and if that happens in Dublin or anywhere in non-islamic city, I'll speak my mind by saying "Assalamualaikum". Simple isnt it?


White dress from MNG
Boot Cut Jeans from Levi's
Pumps from Dunnes store.
Pink shopper bag from BB plaza.


However, if you encounter a lady wearing almost "cloth-less" here and there. Some people might say she's "sexy". I would say "she's a whore" (harsh-nyerr). But, if i know that person is a muslim, I would say " May Allah swt guide you". Simple isn't it? You are what you wear. You can't stop first impressions. Follow these Golden Rules.

There are three golden rules when it comes to making a great first impression.

  • Always make a good first impression
  • You only get a few seconds to make a good first impression
  • You never get a second chance to make a first impression
That's just happen because our society has become image-based. The greatest influence on a first impression is from what you are wearing plus some other details such as bracelets, necklace, shoes and make up. (tetibe teringt, makcik2 kaya dikenali dgn gelang2 emas di tangan hehehe).

To be honest, i dont care what people think. In this real world, hollywood styles has conquered it all. Thank god, i dont really buy them all. I am very selective. Hey, isn't that what fashionable muslimah ladies should do? You only pick up thing that is right to you. To me it is simple, I'll wear what I want as long as I am well covered.

In fact, I used to get a compliment from one Irish sales assistant at Oasis for my dressing. She liked the way I matched the colour of my tudung and my outfit. I can't remember exactly. what I was wearing. It happened about 2 or 3 years ago. (No riak please, nauzubillah). I am just trying to make a point that even westerners view it as nice.

According to Jo-Barret-Lennard . Women who care about their appearance are seen as
  • More credible
  • More capable
  • More intellegent
  • Having a higher self esteem
  • Being more confident

than those who look slightly less pulled together.

Nevertheless, being decent, simple and neat always work anywhere, anytime. Apatah lagi, berpakaian yang betul2 mengikut syariat islam, lagilah diangkat darjatnya. A reminder to me as well. Good Luck, ladies.

Lady Gaga in her video, Poker Face.

She's just another rising fashion icon. My impression: SHE HAS NO TASTE AT ALL. Have some shame laa you lady!








p/s: bilelah aku nak anggap bertudung labuh itu fashionable? O Allah, please guide me.

Love,
Fadzie.
fadzwani_basri@yahoo.com

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Shop In Styles



I think most who loves fashion must also loves shopping or vice versa. They just complement each others need. Being a fashion lover doesnt mean you're fashionable. I do agree that some people just dont know how to put it all together. So, I hope this entry will help a bit. Just a reminder, I am not an expert, never qualified but I love to share some tips and ideas. I hope u'll do the same.

Summer sales now on. It is time to grab the best bargains of the year. Loads of clothings are now reduced up to 70%. However, hitting the shops can be more of a ruthless sport so it is important to be prepared for raiding the high street in comfort. This definitely happens every weekend all year round.

Female First suggested a light and floaty dress (see picture above) is perfect for shopping. However, most summer dresses are sleveless. Thus, you can try put on a layer of cardigan (chose materials that suits your area climate) to cover the bare shoulder and chest. Try to wear your tudung/scarf first, lower it down to cover the chest before you wear the cardigan. This helps to maintain your tudung while walking through the hustles of shopping.

However, Floaty dress like the one shown might not suitable for some ppl yg sedikit berisi or perut buncit (just like me). So the way u can cover it up is by putting a waist belt for a slimmer look. At least, it also can do "ikat perut" to overcome the cravings for extra food.






Ok ladies. That's all for now. Happy shopping.

Sincerely,
Fadzie.